We all have selfish desires, but we also have the desire to give and to share with others. We have a desire to be a better listener, a better father, a better child.
When we're in love, all we want to do is please our partner by doing wonderful, sweet things for him or her. We become completely unconditional in our affections.
The problem is we only stay in that state for a short time...
In the beginning stages, if I left you a message and you called me back some time later, that would not be a problem. But as I get more invested and vulnerable, I begin to expect you to call me back right away. If you don't, I start to feel anxious, maybe even panicked.
What happened?
I started to focus on what I am receiving instead of what I am giving.
Today, review your sharing intentions. Your lack of selfishness will be directly proportional to the amount of fulfillment you will receive from your efforts.
f.y.i.:
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